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29 July 2005

The One-Word Statement...

The One-Word Statement. Many parents have told us how much they appreciate this skill. They claim it saves time, breath, and boring explanations. Teenagers we've worked with have told us they too prefer the single word, "Door"…"Dog"…or "Dishes," and find it a welcome relief from the usual lecture. As we see it, the value of the one-word statement lies in the fact that instead of an oppressive command, we give the child an opportunity to exercise his own initiative, and his own intelligence. When he hears you say, "the dog," he has to think, "What about the dog?"...Oh, yeah, I didn't walk him yet this afternoon...Guess I'd better take him out now."

-Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, Best Selling Authors, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

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Catherine Cate Coblentz: The Blue Cat of Castle Town
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Emily Cheney Neville: It's Like This, Cat
10-October-2009 I discovered this book via the feature: "The Celebration of Female Writers"....I enjoyed reading this book. It was easy and quick reading. It was about the teen boy living in Manhattan in 1960's and how his cat changes his life once he brought him home. Recommended for anyone who likes cat and easy and quick reading. (****)
David Richo: How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
7-October-2009 I finally got a courage to read this book. It took me long while to read from cover to cover at slow pace - had to think/analyze about what I read from time to time. It helped me in many ways that I couldn't imagine that would take place at all. Highly recommended for anyone who wants to understand better about ourselves with open-mindness. The journey of work we need to do for ourselves may surprise any of us one way or other... (*****)
Waki Yamato: The Tale of Genji: 4 (Kodansha bilingual comics) (Japanese Edition)
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Toru Sato: The Ever-Transcending Spirit: The Psychology of Human Relationships, Consciousness, and Development
5-December-2008 I bought this book last year and I finally found my courage and time to read this book at this time of the year. This book not only struck my inner chords, made me look back to my behaviors, thoughts and feelings since I became existed here on this planet. Wow....this book requires you to be open-minded, willingness to look within yourself and your relationship with yourself and others. Highly recommended for anyone who wants to understand better of her/himself and her/his relationship with human beings and nature. (*****)
Timothy Freke: The Jesus Mysteries: Was the "Original Jesus" a Pagan God?
21-November-2008 Libby encouraged me to read this book, so I did at last 2 years later. It was a truly awakening call for me, both spiritually and personally. It re-affirmed my beliefs, thoughts and feelings since I first questioned the establishment of Christianity and other religions. If you have an open mind and want to get the in-depth details of history of Christianity and Paganism, then this book is one for you to read. Highly recommended for anyone who seeks the truth of purpose behind Christianity and Paganism. (*****)
26-October-2008: Boston and the American Revolution: Boston National Historical Park, Massachusetts (National Park Service Handbook)
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Lisa Tuttle: The Mysteries
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Kathy Reichs: Deja Dead
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Trisha Meili: I Am the Central Park Jogger : A Story of Hope and Possibility
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